Have you ever heard an old relative of yours talk about how they met their other half? I have, and a lot of the older generation in my family met their lovers at a social dance. They would go to a dance with a group of their friends and meet their interest with a group of his friends, and that would be their way of dating and getting to know each other, and they are still together now 50 and 60 years later.
A little different to how dating goes down now, huh?
Those days seem well and truly long gone. The only way we see dating occur like that now is if it is portrayed in a film.
Dating in the 21st Century is extremely different now. Before we have even met our perfect match we have already imagined an idea of what they look like, from their size, height, hair style, eye colour, hobbies and in an extreme case – what they do for a living. Unfortunately, that person doesn’t even exist.
Online dating is extremely superficial. Who can honestly say they have read somebodies bio before looking at their pictures? I will hold my own hand up and say I only read the bio if I was extremely interested in that person’s looks and I wanted to know more about that person before I swiped right. In my own right, that was my own loss because I probably swiped left on some incredible people but because they didn’t fit my imaginative expectations I declined them.
This is where the new dating app on the scene, Jigtalk is perfect for stopping you judging somebody on their looks and focusing on their personality and how well you connect in conversation.
The app covers your profile picture with a jigsaw puzzle of 16 pieces, once two Jigtalkers have mutually matched with one another you are then able to remove a jigsaw piece one at a time when a conversation starts flowing. Once 8 mutual messages have been exchanged the full image of who you have been talking to is revealed. Connecting to somebody is ensuring you are able to hold a good conversation with one another, and Jigtalk promotes conversation and getting to know about that person before their face is revealed.
I personally, love the idea of this app because it’s basically the dating app version of The Voice (but without the singing, of course!). Jigtalk is the most gamified dating app on the market, so if you love games and you want to get to know somebody new, it’s the app for you!
The two images below show my face once normally, and the other once it has been ‘jigged up’. This is the image my matches or other people on the app will see as they are swiping left and right. It’s pretty cool, my whole face is covered and only my forehead on my face is on show, and lets be honest nobody can determine the opposite sexes attractiveness by seeing a forehead.
Once you match with someone (you gorgeous little thing) don’t worry if you’re then stuck on what to say to spark up a conversation because a witty thought provoking ice breaker question is provided which is a great way to spark off a conversation without any awkwardness. I come across ice breakers such as:
- What is your favourite childhood film?
- What were you doing three hours ago
- You create a hashtag that goes viral. What is it?
So if you can’t think of what to say, the app’s helpful feature gives you a talking point.
A fresh twist on modern day dating and will put the spark back into talking to one another again without physical attractiveness coming into the equation. I would highly recommend all singletons to download this app and give it a try. You never know, you could meet your future partner!
Do you think you will be getting jiggy with it anytime soon?
Download and try it out for yourself http://bit.ly/JigTalkxCarly
Let me know what you think!
This post is so relevant, I love it!! I actually met my boyfriend through a similar app:)
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Thank you. This app is so fresh and different to others out there. Sure, I’ll check it out now! X
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The app looks so interesting! I seriously wish for an old school love story some day.
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It’s such a good, fun idea! The old school love stories are always the best ones!
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Oooh, quirky! I actually really like that idea! I feel like I’d much rather prefer to use that than Tinder if I was on the market!
Rhianna x
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It’s such a fresh idea it’s great. Yeah I completely agree with you. Tinder is more like a manhunt at times ahaha!! Thanks for reading! X
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Haha! Plus, I’d feel a bit wary thinking people might have just swiped right because they wanted to get in my pants instead of in my life, LOL! x
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I think that’s the whole issue surrounding Tinder xx
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I have never tried a dating app but I think if this was like a find your perfect friend app I’d totally go for it! I really need some real friends right now! Wouldn’t it be nice?
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You could always go on it and see if you find any friends on it? It’s a pretty good way to make new friends!
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This was so interesting to read, I really like your writing style! Looking forward to keeping up with your blog xxx
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Thank you! I really appreciate that xxx
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This sounds so fun! I’m pretty sure I’d get caught up in thinking it was a game and semi-forget I’m talking to a real person though…oops x
Sophie
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Hahahaha!! At least you would have fun x
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I met my boyfriend through Tinder, and I definitely know what you mean when you say that we all judge people by their photos and looks rather than what is in their bio. I think the one reason that tipped me over the edge and made me swipe right was because one of this pictures made me laugh (which I guess isn’t too much to do with looks) but still, it wasn’t because of his interests.
I love the idea of this app, it certainly will be great at helping you actually find people you connect with rather than people who you think are gorgeous but you have nothing in common with! Great post!
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Aw that’s so sweet, it’s strange because you could actually swipe left on somebody who could be so precious in your life but because they don’t look how you think they should you decline them. Thanks for reading, the app really is great and needed in this day and age! X
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I love the idea of this! I’m a relationship person and cannot imagine dating in this time. It seems like so much work.
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Yeah it takes a lot of effort, but you’ve got to kiss several frogs to meet your prince!
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Very true!!
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This is so cool! I’ve never used a dating app before (because I met my husband when I was 17 and didn’t even have an iPhone at the time haha!) this looks so fun though!
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That’s adorable! I love hearing stories like that
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I’ve heard about this app and I find the idea was so cool! If I was single, I would definitely be giving this a try!xx
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It does seem like a fun way to connect with people! Xxx
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I love the idea of this app. It’s so easy to judge someone on their initial profile – it also gives people a chance to get to know the real you!!
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That’s very true, that’s why I love this app!
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I can’t imagine dating again.I have heard so many horror stories but this app is truly creative.
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There sure are some funny horror stories of people meeting online!
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I love the whole concept of the app, dating is so much more superficial nowadays, would be great to see how this works. 🙂 xx
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It’s a great idea and I think it works really well – something so fresh! xx
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This sounds so great! It sounds like a really fun way of getting to know somebody!
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I’ll have to give this a go! I like the sound of something different.
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